When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yes to many of us are in jail but that is a side effect of the prevailing culture.. no need to go into that now..49au said:Because all the black men are in jail.
49au said:I'm kidding dude...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
At that point I don't consider them black. Why would I consider Mariah Carey black? It's beyond stupid. People are F'ing stupid in generalAtom Smasher said:It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
http://images.askmen.com/galleries/...iah-carey/pictures/mariah-carey-picture-1.jpgSan Jose California said:Yeah well I think you're stupid if you don't even REFER to a black girl with darker skin than any supertanned white girl as black, just because she's not ink-black. How the hell else are you gonna describe her in a sentence? "that girl with darker skin than a white girl but lighter skin than a really black girl"? What? Tell me.
Well she's not black to me. Or any person that see's her in person that did not previously know of her (if she went to another country where she's not promoted).Tyson420 said:I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.
It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.
That's all that matters. *shrug*.
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospelTyson420 said:That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Even you look white your still a nigga. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.TIC said:She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
I think she does feel forced and over time just came to accept it. I also think she's brainwashedcrazyboy said:She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
Not true. There are people who look fully white but have some black in them and are treated as white. This is because genetics can work in many different ways. Just because you have some black dna does not make you black necessarily. You could get genetics from anywhere and have a completely different phenotype than your black family members. There were people that did this even during the jim crow era...crazyboy said:Even you look white your still a nigga.
Brown Sugar....how come you taste so goodBlackMack177 said:All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history
Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts
face it. Black women are beautiful
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.