Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm kidding dude...

You may have been kidding, but you are right (in a different sense that the joke was made). And I agree with DonGorgon at the point he was getting at, but decided not to get into. It's a whole big never ending circle. Blacks get a reputation, get prosecuted because of it, reputation grows, get prosecuted because of it, etc, etc, etc. Living in Chicago, I see it all too often.
 

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Which kind of woman men like is not a million dollar question, the answer is easy and can be verified from anyone.

Wanna see which color,tits size,hair and eyes man want? just check the most famous porn star.
Its a 90% man market and any man can buy any movie he wants,just check which actress sell the most and you have your answer.
Or better yet,think about the girls you wanked on last 10 times.

My bet is on white blonde women with average to big breast and toned ass.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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For some reason the sista's have always been very attracted to me (I am as white as the driven snow).

The FACT is, in America at least (I don't know about other cultures), invariably, the more "white" a black woman's features are, the more beautiful she is considered. There is a direct and undeniable correlation.

This is not about "racism". It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features. Attraction is not a choice, although it is affected to some degree by cultural upbringing.
 

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It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features.
At that point I don't consider them black. Why would I consider Mariah Carey black? It's beyond stupid. People are F'ing stupid in general
 

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I am black. I have never dated a black girl in my 16 years of living. I have mostly dated Hispanic girls. I am attracted to black girls but most say that I act too white or I ain't "hood" enough. Oh well their loss.
 

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All the things that make black culture black...vernacular, mannerisms accent w/e.....I'm pretty down with it.

Someone earlier mentioned black girls with Eurocentric features are considered attractive in US.

Check out this vid of Lauren London :whistle:

I think this is what you're referring too, am i correct? She's a typical American black girl, only difference she kind of lighter.

I don't notice black girls being more "aggresive" in regards to telling you they like you. I've noticed many huskier girls or ones with masculine tendencies do this (gross) but I don't believe it's a racial tendency..

Some girls sh!t test you more than others, and it's more a culture thing. Grew up around weak guys, bad experience with guys....whatever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah well I think you're stupid if you don't even REFER to a black girl with darker skin than any supertanned white girl as black, just because she's not ink-black. How the hell else are you gonna describe her in a sentence? "that girl with darker skin than a white girl but lighter skin than a really black girl"? What? Tell me.
http://images.askmen.com/galleries/...iah-carey/pictures/mariah-carey-picture-1.jpg

Nope, same skin tone as the average white girl. No she's not pale but that is hardly what I consider tan. You're nitpicking. She's white to me

You idiot
 

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I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.

It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.

That's all that matters. *shrug*.
 

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Tyson420 said:
I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.

It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.

That's all that matters. *shrug*.
Well she's not black to me. Or any person that see's her in person that did not previously know of her (if she went to another country where she's not promoted).

Yea, she considers herself black. But that is because of brainwashing that I'm not even going to get into right now.
 

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That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
 

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That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TIC said:
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Even you look white your still a nigga. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
 

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I don't even AGREE with this...but I don't think most White guys are really THAT into Black girls. They will mess with them, sure, but most wouldn't date them. And it's not some kind of Eurocentric conspiracy, I think the same holds true across most of the races other than Black. Black women are, more often than other races of women, considered less beautiful.

Again, I don't agree since I am wifed up with a Black woman but I also know how White guys are.
 

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All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history

Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts

face it. Black women are beautiful
 

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crazyboy said:
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
I think she does feel forced and over time just came to accept it. I also think she's brainwashed


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpCxkO2up4w&feature=related
Skip to 1:12. Doesn't sound like she feels black. It sounds like she has been forced to accept it.

crazyboy said:
Even you look white your still a nigga.
Not true. There are people who look fully white but have some black in them and are treated as white. This is because genetics can work in many different ways. Just because you have some black dna does not make you black necessarily. You could get genetics from anywhere and have a completely different phenotype than your black family members. There were people that did this even during the jim crow era...


Let me ask you something. What race is vin diesel?


http://images.askmen.com/galleries/men/vin-diesel/pictures/vin-diesel-picture-1.jpg

White, to 99% of the world. You look at him and there isn't a trace of blackness....yet he has black in him. Think about it. He is not a "nigga" to anyone unless they already knew of his parents, which most people don't. He could go anywhere in europe, he would not be called "nigga" he looks fully white.


http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6pQKEVjga...8/pLOys0J_eNo/s1600/Wentworth_Miller_0054.jpg

What race is this guy? Would you call him "nigga"? Would whites not accept him? Where are his black features? He has black in him in case you aren't aware. Yet he looks fully white.

Phenotype= your race. The dude is white, no matter how many black relatives he has
 

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BlackMack177 said:
All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history

Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts

face it. Black women are beautiful
Brown Sugar....how come you taste so good

Even though you're wearin' them
Citified high heels
I can tell by your giant step
You been walkin' through the cotton fields


One of my all time heroes MickJag also was diagnosed with Jungle Fever!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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