"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm kidding dude...

You may have been kidding, but you are right (in a different sense that the joke was made). And I agree with DonGorgon at the point he was getting at, but decided not to get into. It's a whole big never ending circle. Blacks get a reputation, get prosecuted because of it, reputation grows, get prosecuted because of it, etc, etc, etc. Living in Chicago, I see it all too often.
 

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Which kind of woman men like is not a million dollar question, the answer is easy and can be verified from anyone.

Wanna see which color,tits size,hair and eyes man want? just check the most famous porn star.
Its a 90% man market and any man can buy any movie he wants,just check which actress sell the most and you have your answer.
Or better yet,think about the girls you wanked on last 10 times.

My bet is on white blonde women with average to big breast and toned ass.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For some reason the sista's have always been very attracted to me (I am as white as the driven snow).

The FACT is, in America at least (I don't know about other cultures), invariably, the more "white" a black woman's features are, the more beautiful she is considered. There is a direct and undeniable correlation.

This is not about "racism". It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features. Attraction is not a choice, although it is affected to some degree by cultural upbringing.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features.
At that point I don't consider them black. Why would I consider Mariah Carey black? It's beyond stupid. People are F'ing stupid in general
 

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I am black. I have never dated a black girl in my 16 years of living. I have mostly dated Hispanic girls. I am attracted to black girls but most say that I act too white or I ain't "hood" enough. Oh well their loss.
 

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All the things that make black culture black...vernacular, mannerisms accent w/e.....I'm pretty down with it.

Someone earlier mentioned black girls with Eurocentric features are considered attractive in US.

Check out this vid of Lauren London :whistle:

I think this is what you're referring too, am i correct? She's a typical American black girl, only difference she kind of lighter.

I don't notice black girls being more "aggresive" in regards to telling you they like you. I've noticed many huskier girls or ones with masculine tendencies do this (gross) but I don't believe it's a racial tendency..

Some girls sh!t test you more than others, and it's more a culture thing. Grew up around weak guys, bad experience with guys....whatever.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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San Jose California said:
Yeah well I think you're stupid if you don't even REFER to a black girl with darker skin than any supertanned white girl as black, just because she's not ink-black. How the hell else are you gonna describe her in a sentence? "that girl with darker skin than a white girl but lighter skin than a really black girl"? What? Tell me.
http://images.askmen.com/galleries/...iah-carey/pictures/mariah-carey-picture-1.jpg

Nope, same skin tone as the average white girl. No she's not pale but that is hardly what I consider tan. You're nitpicking. She's white to me

You idiot
 

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I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.

It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.

That's all that matters. *shrug*.
 

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Tyson420 said:
I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.

It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.

That's all that matters. *shrug*.
Well she's not black to me. Or any person that see's her in person that did not previously know of her (if she went to another country where she's not promoted).

Yea, she considers herself black. But that is because of brainwashing that I'm not even going to get into right now.
 

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That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
 

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That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TIC said:
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Even you look white your still a nigga. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
 

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I don't even AGREE with this...but I don't think most White guys are really THAT into Black girls. They will mess with them, sure, but most wouldn't date them. And it's not some kind of Eurocentric conspiracy, I think the same holds true across most of the races other than Black. Black women are, more often than other races of women, considered less beautiful.

Again, I don't agree since I am wifed up with a Black woman but I also know how White guys are.
 

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All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history

Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts

face it. Black women are beautiful
 

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crazyboy said:
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
I think she does feel forced and over time just came to accept it. I also think she's brainwashed


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpCxkO2up4w&feature=related
Skip to 1:12. Doesn't sound like she feels black. It sounds like she has been forced to accept it.

crazyboy said:
Even you look white your still a nigga.
Not true. There are people who look fully white but have some black in them and are treated as white. This is because genetics can work in many different ways. Just because you have some black dna does not make you black necessarily. You could get genetics from anywhere and have a completely different phenotype than your black family members. There were people that did this even during the jim crow era...


Let me ask you something. What race is vin diesel?


http://images.askmen.com/galleries/men/vin-diesel/pictures/vin-diesel-picture-1.jpg

White, to 99% of the world. You look at him and there isn't a trace of blackness....yet he has black in him. Think about it. He is not a "nigga" to anyone unless they already knew of his parents, which most people don't. He could go anywhere in europe, he would not be called "nigga" he looks fully white.


http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6pQKEVjga...8/pLOys0J_eNo/s1600/Wentworth_Miller_0054.jpg

What race is this guy? Would you call him "nigga"? Would whites not accept him? Where are his black features? He has black in him in case you aren't aware. Yet he looks fully white.

Phenotype= your race. The dude is white, no matter how many black relatives he has
 

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BlackMack177 said:
All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history

Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts

face it. Black women are beautiful
Brown Sugar....how come you taste so good

Even though you're wearin' them
Citified high heels
I can tell by your giant step
You been walkin' through the cotton fields


One of my all time heroes MickJag also was diagnosed with Jungle Fever!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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