You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
yes to many of us are in jail but that is a side effect of the prevailing culture.. no need to go into that now..49au said:Because all the black men are in jail.
49au said:I'm kidding dude...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
At that point I don't consider them black. Why would I consider Mariah Carey black? It's beyond stupid. People are F'ing stupid in generalAtom Smasher said:It is a fact that our culture, by a vast majority, assigns more attractiveness to black women with white or european features.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
http://images.askmen.com/galleries/...iah-carey/pictures/mariah-carey-picture-1.jpgSan Jose California said:Yeah well I think you're stupid if you don't even REFER to a black girl with darker skin than any supertanned white girl as black, just because she's not ink-black. How the hell else are you gonna describe her in a sentence? "that girl with darker skin than a white girl but lighter skin than a really black girl"? What? Tell me.
Well she's not black to me. Or any person that see's her in person that did not previously know of her (if she went to another country where she's not promoted).Tyson420 said:I used to think Mariah Carey was white. But some of her features seemed Black to me. And I knew this without Googling her.
It was a long time ago. Doesn't matter, she considers herself Black. Her Hubby *Cough whipped slave* Nick Cannon considers her Black.
That's all that matters. *shrug*.
She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospelTyson420 said:That's interesting because most minorities wish they were white, it seems 'brainwashing' is a two-way street.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Even you look white your still a nigga. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.TIC said:She's brainwashed because even though she has a predominately Caucasoid phenotype, she feels forced to consider herself black because she has some black family members. ODR is brainwhasing, completely a man-made invention, and has no biological truth, yet everyone including blacks treat it as gospel
I think she does feel forced and over time just came to accept it. I also think she's brainwashedcrazyboy said:She doesn't feel force , I mean obama is mix as well. But notion of american if you have any black in you at all. Its not brain washing white people don't accept her as white so she claim to black when she reality mix.
Not true. There are people who look fully white but have some black in them and are treated as white. This is because genetics can work in many different ways. Just because you have some black dna does not make you black necessarily. You could get genetics from anywhere and have a completely different phenotype than your black family members. There were people that did this even during the jim crow era...crazyboy said:Even you look white your still a nigga.
Brown Sugar....how come you taste so goodBlackMack177 said:All i got to say to your people who think no one thinks black women are attractive is learn your history
Back in the days of slavery, white men used to fvck their slave women all the time. They fvcked around so much that they created new races (puerto ricans, dominicans, etc). They used to commonly pick black female slaves based on how sexually attractive they were. They would even marry their black slaves over their more "beautiful" white counterparts
face it. Black women are beautiful
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.