"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why do Americans circumcize their shlongs ?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It’s my understanding it’s easier to keep clean.
The head should be more sensitive than the surrounding shaft foreskin.
No, never caused problems for me…
Btw- Genital mutilation usually involves removal or disfigurement of a highly pleasure sensitive biological part. Circumcision does Not…
Compare female cl|t removal to possible male D head removal and you will understand.
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I've always heard that it's the opposite, because the foreskin adds some girth.
From what I understand, cutting the foreskin supposedly makes it easier to keep clean, like billtx49 said. It's supposed to be more hygienic and thus prevent infection - but I've also heard that this is a myth. I don't pretend to know the truth.
It's also been passed down as a religious tradition, from Jews to Christians. There is no official Christian doctrine that I'm aware of that you should be circumcised, but like I said it's kind of a tradition. I guess you could also say it's a Western tradition (with roots in religion). Parents get it done because they want their child to look like most of the other males.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But it is removal of a part and it is disfigurement
I have a foreskin. It's not a dead flap of skin dude
It's tissue, it has nerves, vessels, is sensitive, sexual etc
Male genital mutilation - plain and clear to me
I don't expect you to agree because you're used to the practice
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- Easier hygiene. Circumcision makes it simpler to wash the penis. ...
- Decreased risk of urinary tract infections. ...
- Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections. ...
- Prevention of penile problems. ...
- Decreased risk of male penile and female cervical cancer.
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Are Americans really too lazy to take 0.5 second to pull back their foreskin to wash?
I have a foreskin, I have never had that problem.
What? How? This one I'm extremely skeptical about.
Why did human males evolve to have foreskin if it's such a disadvantage?
Nope.
There's increased risk of complications if the foreskin is tight, in which case treat it or remove it if necessary. In a normal penis (which a majority of men have) these problems rarely occurs.
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But again as long as its your junk do as you want, if it was for me however I would make it illegal unless requested from an adult subject.
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ok I need to ask, do you guys not take a bath everyday?
as someone who have his thing whole and take at least a bath everyday, I can tell you, its not hard to keep your thing clean, never had a problem, and I can't give much for cancer thing, but I do belive they are pushing on that one
Consult WebMD and the Mayo Clinic with your doubts then. When I have a health question or doubt, I find advice from professionals usually helps.
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Bathing daily is a relatively modern occurrence (less than 150 years).
A gentleman I know had his circumcised as an adult. The woman on the receiving end was the one getting UTI's
From personal experience, the ridge around my Glans has been praised numerous times by my partner specifically. Glad it was done before I was cogniscent of pain and anatomy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't forget to mention that it becomes harden, thus less sensitive.
But if water is scarce in ur geographical location, then by all means please get circumcised just like the Jews did thousands of years ago in the desert.
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Thats because we eat simple sugars that do not exist in nature as much as most of the boxed processed food we consume nowadays.
I don't miss anything. But hey, i can't compare before and after.
It's clean, it looks good, the girls love it.
But imo you're right @Medina. It should take away some feeling. Foreskin has lots of nerves, you're not as sensitive any more like with foreskin. It has a function, too.
If i had a foreskin i wouldn't cut it off because of hygienic or cosmetical reasons.
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Anyway, in all this time my foreskin hasn't been an issue. So the idea that circumcision negates cancer is probably made up by circumcisers scouting their next victim/client.
Sorry to hear that but much agreed
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