"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why do Americans circumcize their shlongs ?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It’s my understanding it’s easier to keep clean.
The head should be more sensitive than the surrounding shaft foreskin.
No, never caused problems for me…
Btw- Genital mutilation usually involves removal or disfigurement of a highly pleasure sensitive biological part. Circumcision does Not…
Compare female cl|t removal to possible male D head removal and you will understand.
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I've always heard that it's the opposite, because the foreskin adds some girth.
From what I understand, cutting the foreskin supposedly makes it easier to keep clean, like billtx49 said. It's supposed to be more hygienic and thus prevent infection - but I've also heard that this is a myth. I don't pretend to know the truth.
It's also been passed down as a religious tradition, from Jews to Christians. There is no official Christian doctrine that I'm aware of that you should be circumcised, but like I said it's kind of a tradition. I guess you could also say it's a Western tradition (with roots in religion). Parents get it done because they want their child to look like most of the other males.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But it is removal of a part and it is disfigurement
I have a foreskin. It's not a dead flap of skin dude
It's tissue, it has nerves, vessels, is sensitive, sexual etc
Male genital mutilation - plain and clear to me
I don't expect you to agree because you're used to the practice
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- Easier hygiene. Circumcision makes it simpler to wash the penis. ...
- Decreased risk of urinary tract infections. ...
- Decreased risk of sexually transmitted infections. ...
- Prevention of penile problems. ...
- Decreased risk of male penile and female cervical cancer.
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Are Americans really too lazy to take 0.5 second to pull back their foreskin to wash?
I have a foreskin, I have never had that problem.
What? How? This one I'm extremely skeptical about.
Why did human males evolve to have foreskin if it's such a disadvantage?
Nope.
There's increased risk of complications if the foreskin is tight, in which case treat it or remove it if necessary. In a normal penis (which a majority of men have) these problems rarely occurs.
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But again as long as its your junk do as you want, if it was for me however I would make it illegal unless requested from an adult subject.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ok I need to ask, do you guys not take a bath everyday?
as someone who have his thing whole and take at least a bath everyday, I can tell you, its not hard to keep your thing clean, never had a problem, and I can't give much for cancer thing, but I do belive they are pushing on that one
Consult WebMD and the Mayo Clinic with your doubts then. When I have a health question or doubt, I find advice from professionals usually helps.
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Bathing daily is a relatively modern occurrence (less than 150 years).
A gentleman I know had his circumcised as an adult. The woman on the receiving end was the one getting UTI's
From personal experience, the ridge around my Glans has been praised numerous times by my partner specifically. Glad it was done before I was cogniscent of pain and anatomy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don't forget to mention that it becomes harden, thus less sensitive.
But if water is scarce in ur geographical location, then by all means please get circumcised just like the Jews did thousands of years ago in the desert.
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Thats because we eat simple sugars that do not exist in nature as much as most of the boxed processed food we consume nowadays.
I don't miss anything. But hey, i can't compare before and after.
It's clean, it looks good, the girls love it.
But imo you're right @Medina. It should take away some feeling. Foreskin has lots of nerves, you're not as sensitive any more like with foreskin. It has a function, too.
If i had a foreskin i wouldn't cut it off because of hygienic or cosmetical reasons.
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Anyway, in all this time my foreskin hasn't been an issue. So the idea that circumcision negates cancer is probably made up by circumcisers scouting their next victim/client.
Sorry to hear that but much agreed
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.