Why did she tell her friend but not me?

[Sgthaytham]

My girlfriend told her friend that she’s planning on coming to my town because she hasn’t seen me in a while...

Why tell her friend and not me

 

[sosousage]

buhaha, shes playing with you, and managed to get you worried, ))))))))))

or she simply doesnt care

 

[Sgthaytham]

buhaha, shes playing with you, and managed to get you worried, ))))))))))

or she simply doesnt care

Doubt that... her friend told me that my Gf is planning on coming to my town to see me because she hasn’t seen me in awhile.

She wouldn’t be doing it if she didn’t care.

 

[Billtx49]

Doubt that... her friend told me that my Gf is planning on coming to my town to see me because she hasn’t seen me in awhile.

She wouldn’t be doing it if she didn’t care.

Then she’s going to surprise visit you, but her friend warned you. Act surprised.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Then she’s going to surprise visit you, but her friend warned you. Act surprised.

I just hope it isn’t during the week... I’m busy and spend most of the time doing business in the city... Tuesday I have to pick my dad up and Wednesday I’m going to watch a match with a friend.

I would definitely act surprised... I wouldn’t expect it since she’s been really busy lately.

 

[In2theGame]

My girlfriend told her friend that she’s planning on coming to my town because she hasn’t seen me in a while...

Why tell her friend and not me

A) She genuinely wants to surprise you
B) She wants to surprise you BUT wants to catch you in the act if you're up to no good
C) She hopes to catch you messing around so she can dump you and F the hot guy she knows the following week (kidding but in some ways can be true)

 

[AttackFormation]

I think the OP is a lesbian. Can't explain this thread's subject matter otherwise.

 

[dude99]

My girlfriend told her friend that she’s planning on coming to my town because she hasn’t seen me in a while...

Why tell her friend and not me

If she is planning to surprise you, then that is why she didnt tell you. If she is planning a visit and just not telling you at all, the she isnt your girlfriend.

Few things could be going on.

1. She wants to surprise you
2. She wants to spy on you.
3. She is fukking some other dude and doesnt need the hastle of you spoiling her plans.

Wait for her trip. If she comes and goes and never says anything to you, you cut bait and go date other women

 

[dude99]

A) She genuinely wants to surprise you
B) She wants to surprise you BUT wants to catch you in the act if you're up to no good
C) She hopes to catch you messing around so she can dump you and F the hot guy she knows the following week (kidding but in some ways can be true)

Didnt see this post before i answered. I see we had the same train of thought.

 

[In2theGame]

Didnt see this post before i answered. I see we had the same train of thought.

:::High Five::: Experience knows the possibilities and Women do sh*t like this a lot for both good intentions and bad.

 

[dude99]

:::High Five::: Experience knows the possibilities and Women do sh*t like this a lot for both good intentions and bad.

Yes they do. I had a chick that used to spy on me while i was working. Had to cut bate and give her the boot as her jealousy was too much.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Right so I have been in touch with her...

I sent her a text this afternoon:

Me “Hey! Have you got any free time, I would love to see you?”

Her “I couldn’t come this weekend because I have exams on Monday, I can’t come next week either because I have a rugby tournament”

Me “Right I see, well let me know when you do find the time and we can make plans then”

Her “That works for me...”

If she had left it at that, it would have been the end, but she then texts:

“How have you been?”

 

[Spaz]

Either her friend is lying (doubtful) or she is (most likely).

Small but accumulative variations within her behaviour has likely kicked in ur instincts and made you ask us this seemingly "innocent act" of visiting you.

Trust ur gut.

 

[marmel75]

A) She genuinely wants to surprise you
B) She wants to surprise you BUT wants to catch you in the act if you're up to no good
C) She hopes to catch you messing around so she can dump you and F the hot guy she knows the following week (kidding but in some ways can be true)

D) She is coming to meet someone else

 

[dude99]

Right so I have been in touch with her...

I sent her a text this afternoon:

Me “Hey! Have you got any free time, I would love to see you?”

Her “I couldn’t come this weekend because I have exams on Monday, I can’t come next week either because I have a rugby tournament”

Me “Right I see, well let me know when you do find the time and we can make plans then”

Her “That works for me...”

If she had left it at that, it would have been the end, but she then texts:

“How have you been?”

"Ive been great. I've been having a great time with sally/linda (inset female name here)

She's great company and a cool chick. How have you been?"


Then leave it at that.

 

[In2theGame]

D) She is coming to meet someone else

Lol true