"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why did she cry?

thebiglimp

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i met this girl on tinder for a one night stand, sex is incredible, turns into two, three night stands. i wanna make it more permanent, a relationship, so i ask her out, she refuses, we still meet for you-know-what, then on the fifth and the last time, i let it be known in so many words that i will not see her again unless we go on a date. once again she refuses, letting me know that this is pure tinder/sex thing and she has other guys lined up. but somehow we get emotional in the end of the night, and as i leave, she starts crying. sad, genuine tears. i comfort her, assuring her that she can trust me.

so we go on a date the next week, planning to spend the whole day together but she overreacts on little things i say, acting pissed off all day, and after dinner, tells me to go home. we barely had any communication that day, her just overreacting and ignoring me, while still spending time together for 6 hours... we now only text briefly, and she avoids the question of next date.

the girl definitely has an abandonment issues, and i'd like to know why she behaved that way during the date, and why she cried.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tictac

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You are not a psychotherapist. Neither is anyone else here. Even if someone was there isn't enough info to go on.

She told you clearly what she wanted. You didn't listen. Your bad.

People cry. Get over it.
 

BackInTheGame78

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Probably because she is acting like the man in the interaction and you like the woman begging her for a "date" when she clearly just wants to get railed. What the hell is wrong with you?

Guys on here post trying to get laid, you are getting laid and then you try and get all emotional and act like a woman. It's HER job to push for that, not yours. Nothing kills attraction faster than a man acting like a woman.
 

El Payaso

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So let me get this straight. A girl only wanted to keep things on f*ck buddy terms but you were pushing for relationship things like dates? Ay dios mío....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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usernamedox11

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why would you want a relationship with that wh0re? She told you she has other guys lined up to fvck and you still wanna make her your GF? Are you stupid? I'm curious. Where are you from? Sounds like a girl i might now.\

and...this girl is a lost cause, btw.
 
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