"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why did she cry?

thebiglimp

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i met this girl on tinder for a one night stand, sex is incredible, turns into two, three night stands. i wanna make it more permanent, a relationship, so i ask her out, she refuses, we still meet for you-know-what, then on the fifth and the last time, i let it be known in so many words that i will not see her again unless we go on a date. once again she refuses, letting me know that this is pure tinder/sex thing and she has other guys lined up. but somehow we get emotional in the end of the night, and as i leave, she starts crying. sad, genuine tears. i comfort her, assuring her that she can trust me.

so we go on a date the next week, planning to spend the whole day together but she overreacts on little things i say, acting pissed off all day, and after dinner, tells me to go home. we barely had any communication that day, her just overreacting and ignoring me, while still spending time together for 6 hours... we now only text briefly, and she avoids the question of next date.

the girl definitely has an abandonment issues, and i'd like to know why she behaved that way during the date, and why she cried.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tictac

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You are not a psychotherapist. Neither is anyone else here. Even if someone was there isn't enough info to go on.

She told you clearly what she wanted. You didn't listen. Your bad.

People cry. Get over it.
 

BackInTheGame78

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Probably because she is acting like the man in the interaction and you like the woman begging her for a "date" when she clearly just wants to get railed. What the hell is wrong with you?

Guys on here post trying to get laid, you are getting laid and then you try and get all emotional and act like a woman. It's HER job to push for that, not yours. Nothing kills attraction faster than a man acting like a woman.
 

El Payaso

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So let me get this straight. A girl only wanted to keep things on f*ck buddy terms but you were pushing for relationship things like dates? Ay dios mío....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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usernamedox11

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why would you want a relationship with that wh0re? She told you she has other guys lined up to fvck and you still wanna make her your GF? Are you stupid? I'm curious. Where are you from? Sounds like a girl i might now.\

and...this girl is a lost cause, btw.
 
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