Wolfgang D
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why did BeDJ get banned?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Direct personal attacks, name-calling.
You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.
Those who do so will be banned.
You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.
Those who do so will be banned.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
He seemed more of a "internet jock" to me to be honest. Real annoying cat.
Wolfgang D
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He created two threads. The only name-calling from him is "troll", a word practically everyone uses, and he doesn't even mention anyone's name. Singling out him - or me - for that? Meanwhile I see people get away with far worse.Atom Smasher said:
This reminds me of Naughty Ninja: 2,497 posts, tons of rep after good posts, and then banned arbitrarily.
Meanwhile, meet Sonny Knights who does not get banned.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206044
Hey man,Wolfgang D said:
I really appreciate this thread. I can't post on my account because it's banned, ironically in doing so, this account will be banned as well.
Atom Smasher has a ton experience and we should all respect his decision. I stepped to far across the line in sniffing out trolls. I came back to this site a year ago and found many "repped" members who aren't credible on this forum. Instead of letting it pass, I wanted to subtly (although, not at times) warn other members how their advice is bullsh!t.
I've had members beginning to see some questionable posters on this site via PM. It's certainly good that you guys continue to do so. I'll give you my opinions on the subject matter and let you make your own opinion. You are more than welcome to PM me or BeDJ - though by the looks on how this situation was handled...I won't be frequenting here as much.
Ciao!
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I've never received ANY warning.
The moment I question the mods, I'm banned. This thread will be deleted in 5 minutes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Edit:
I've never received ANY warning.
If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.
However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
I've never received ANY warning.
If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.
However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
Wolfgang D
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He referred to that he didn't receive any warning.Frayzer said:
Ah, the rules....
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
Because he did the only thing that always gets the mods attention here: Question their ability/practices as mods.
That's it.
Banning people who say the mods aren't good here is more important than banning obvious trolls.
PUA-HATE and 4CHAN both think they can troll here without risk... And they are mostly right. And they make up most of the new members here.
There are in fact rules message boards can put into place that hinder trolling (you can't stop it all together). I've called for them to be put into place many times (even posted exampled of what other boards do) and have been ignored.
From a $ standpoint - I don't think there's a huge advantage for the owner of this site (who from what i've been told - has the final say in bannings) to ban trolls. Traffic is traffic; hits are hits... $ is $.
Dollar dollar bill yall....
That's it.
Banning people who say the mods aren't good here is more important than banning obvious trolls.
PUA-HATE and 4CHAN both think they can troll here without risk... And they are mostly right. And they make up most of the new members here.
There are in fact rules message boards can put into place that hinder trolling (you can't stop it all together). I've called for them to be put into place many times (even posted exampled of what other boards do) and have been ignored.
From a $ standpoint - I don't think there's a huge advantage for the owner of this site (who from what i've been told - has the final say in bannings) to ban trolls. Traffic is traffic; hits are hits... $ is $.
Dollar dollar bill yall....
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Quote from BeDJ:
"Just fvcking listen and don't try to be a faggot donkey show knight."
When you publically call out the mods in several threads for "seemingly" failing to take action, you are naturally turning the spotlight upon yourself. You should be prepared to be dealt with according to your own criteria.
I'm letting the user "Skyy" stay.
"Just fvcking listen and don't try to be a faggot donkey show knight."
When you publically call out the mods in several threads for "seemingly" failing to take action, you are naturally turning the spotlight upon yourself. You should be prepared to be dealt with according to your own criteria.
I'm letting the user "Skyy" stay.
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