Wolfgang D
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why did BeDJ get banned?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Direct personal attacks, name-calling.
You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.
Those who do so will be banned.
You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.
Those who do so will be banned.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
He seemed more of a "internet jock" to me to be honest. Real annoying cat.
Wolfgang D
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He created two threads. The only name-calling from him is "troll", a word practically everyone uses, and he doesn't even mention anyone's name. Singling out him - or me - for that? Meanwhile I see people get away with far worse.Atom Smasher said:
This reminds me of Naughty Ninja: 2,497 posts, tons of rep after good posts, and then banned arbitrarily.
Meanwhile, meet Sonny Knights who does not get banned.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206044
Hey man,Wolfgang D said:
I really appreciate this thread. I can't post on my account because it's banned, ironically in doing so, this account will be banned as well.
Atom Smasher has a ton experience and we should all respect his decision. I stepped to far across the line in sniffing out trolls. I came back to this site a year ago and found many "repped" members who aren't credible on this forum. Instead of letting it pass, I wanted to subtly (although, not at times) warn other members how their advice is bullsh!t.
I've had members beginning to see some questionable posters on this site via PM. It's certainly good that you guys continue to do so. I'll give you my opinions on the subject matter and let you make your own opinion. You are more than welcome to PM me or BeDJ - though by the looks on how this situation was handled...I won't be frequenting here as much.
Ciao!
Edit:
I've never received ANY warning.
The moment I question the mods, I'm banned. This thread will be deleted in 5 minutes.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Edit:
I've never received ANY warning.
If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.
However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
I've never received ANY warning.
If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.
However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
Wolfgang D
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He referred to that he didn't receive any warning.Frayzer said:
Ah, the rules....
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
Because he did the only thing that always gets the mods attention here: Question their ability/practices as mods.
That's it.
Banning people who say the mods aren't good here is more important than banning obvious trolls.
PUA-HATE and 4CHAN both think they can troll here without risk... And they are mostly right. And they make up most of the new members here.
There are in fact rules message boards can put into place that hinder trolling (you can't stop it all together). I've called for them to be put into place many times (even posted exampled of what other boards do) and have been ignored.
From a $ standpoint - I don't think there's a huge advantage for the owner of this site (who from what i've been told - has the final say in bannings) to ban trolls. Traffic is traffic; hits are hits... $ is $.
Dollar dollar bill yall....
That's it.
Banning people who say the mods aren't good here is more important than banning obvious trolls.
PUA-HATE and 4CHAN both think they can troll here without risk... And they are mostly right. And they make up most of the new members here.
There are in fact rules message boards can put into place that hinder trolling (you can't stop it all together). I've called for them to be put into place many times (even posted exampled of what other boards do) and have been ignored.
From a $ standpoint - I don't think there's a huge advantage for the owner of this site (who from what i've been told - has the final say in bannings) to ban trolls. Traffic is traffic; hits are hits... $ is $.
Dollar dollar bill yall....
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Quote from BeDJ:
"Just fvcking listen and don't try to be a faggot donkey show knight."
When you publically call out the mods in several threads for "seemingly" failing to take action, you are naturally turning the spotlight upon yourself. You should be prepared to be dealt with according to your own criteria.
I'm letting the user "Skyy" stay.
"Just fvcking listen and don't try to be a faggot donkey show knight."
When you publically call out the mods in several threads for "seemingly" failing to take action, you are naturally turning the spotlight upon yourself. You should be prepared to be dealt with according to your own criteria.
I'm letting the user "Skyy" stay.
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