"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why did BeDJ get banned?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Atom Smasher

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Direct personal attacks, name-calling.

You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.

Those who do so will be banned.
 

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He seemed more of a "internet jock" to me to be honest. Real annoying cat.
 

Wolfgang D

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Atom Smasher said:
Direct personal attacks, name-calling.

You and he have been on an aggressive tear about trolling and useless threads, and quite ironically I found him creating several useless threads and badgering other members.

Those who do so will be banned.
He created two threads. The only name-calling from him is "troll", a word practically everyone uses, and he doesn't even mention anyone's name. Singling out him - or me - for that? Meanwhile I see people get away with far worse.

This reminds me of Naughty Ninja: 2,497 posts, tons of rep after good posts, and then banned arbitrarily.

Meanwhile, meet Sonny Knights who does not get banned.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206044
you're a faggot

have a nice day
i'm not the one fu ckin bloody pu ssy

i bet you ate that b!Tch pu ssy too
troll my ass who the fu ck was talking to you
i'm just not soft on these b!tch as$ niggaz like your sister titties

when you act like a (man aka dj) i'll treat you with respect

on'til then fu ck off co ck chocker
 

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Wolfgang D said:
He created two threads. The only name-calling in them is "troll", a word practically everyone uses, and he doesn't even mention anyone's name. Meanwhile I see people get away with far worse. Singling out him - or me - for that? Amazing.

This reminds me of Naughty Ninja: 2,497 posts, tons of rep after good posts, and then banned arbitrarily.
Hey man,

I really appreciate this thread. I can't post on my account because it's banned, ironically in doing so, this account will be banned as well.

Atom Smasher has a ton experience and we should all respect his decision. I stepped to far across the line in sniffing out trolls. I came back to this site a year ago and found many "repped" members who aren't credible on this forum. Instead of letting it pass, I wanted to subtly (although, not at times) warn other members how their advice is bullsh!t.

I've had members beginning to see some questionable posters on this site via PM. It's certainly good that you guys continue to do so. I'll give you my opinions on the subject matter and let you make your own opinion. You are more than welcome to PM me or BeDJ - though by the looks on how this situation was handled...I won't be frequenting here as much.

Ciao!

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I've never received ANY warning.

The moment I question the mods, I'm banned. This thread will be deleted in 5 minutes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Edit:

I've never received ANY warning.



If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.

However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
 

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Frayzer said:
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I've never received ANY warning.



If you were referring to me on how i would handle a situation like this in a previous thread, then i believe you should have.

However the rules state that any offence or action can result in termination of your account with or without reason or warning.
He referred to that he didn't receive any warning.

Ah, the rules....
 

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Because he did the only thing that always gets the mods attention here: Question their ability/practices as mods.

That's it.

Banning people who say the mods aren't good here is more important than banning obvious trolls.

PUA-HATE and 4CHAN both think they can troll here without risk... And they are mostly right. And they make up most of the new members here.


There are in fact rules message boards can put into place that hinder trolling (you can't stop it all together). I've called for them to be put into place many times (even posted exampled of what other boards do) and have been ignored.



From a $ standpoint - I don't think there's a huge advantage for the owner of this site (who from what i've been told - has the final say in bannings) to ban trolls. Traffic is traffic; hits are hits... $ is $.

Dollar dollar bill yall....
 

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Quote from BeDJ:

"Just fvcking listen and don't try to be a faggot donkey show knight."


When you publically call out the mods in several threads for "seemingly" failing to take action, you are naturally turning the spotlight upon yourself. You should be prepared to be dealt with according to your own criteria.

I'm letting the user "Skyy" stay.
 
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