That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sorry, I posted a pic but removed it later coz I'm too much concerned with my anonymity on this board...Social_Leper said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I completely agree with this. I used to bike to school for homemade "cardio" but it got very cold here, so I am driving again.Wilko said:Good to see another BW guy. Best part about BW is that it keeps me out of the gym - it's just a weird environment, I'm not a fan.
As an aside, no additional "cardio" BM?
When it comes to return on investment - I think most of the benefits (so far as access to more attractive women) are achieved with a fairly basic level of fitness. Seems to be a law of diminishing returns once you push past a certain point with your physique, i.e. an awful lot of extra effort for relatively little reward. Guys will have other reasons for taking it to that extra level, but I'm mindful that it doesn't make much economic sense when we're talking pure SMV.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
:crackup:Zarky said:Just maintain a healthy exercise routine that includes moderate resistance training (weights) as well as moderate aerobic training. Don't neglect certain body parts. Eat a balanced diet.
After a couple of years of this you'll be healthy & fit and you will have maxed out your genetic potential. Make a lifestyle of it, stop looking obsessively in the mirror, and you'll be as attractive as you can be to women.
Maxing out your overall genetic potential in moderation is far more likely to get women hot for you than busting out 20" biceps. Unless of course you're going for trashy jersey shore gym rats. Then by all means, juice up, get your fake tan going, and put your gold chain on.
Same readership tripped over themselves to see naked muscled steroid-using actors in Magic Mike.Scaramouche said:The Following is an article in an Australian Ladies COSMOPOLITAN Magazine,