You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sorry, I posted a pic but removed it later coz I'm too much concerned with my anonymity on this board...Social_Leper said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I completely agree with this. I used to bike to school for homemade "cardio" but it got very cold here, so I am driving again.Wilko said:Good to see another BW guy. Best part about BW is that it keeps me out of the gym - it's just a weird environment, I'm not a fan.
As an aside, no additional "cardio" BM?
When it comes to return on investment - I think most of the benefits (so far as access to more attractive women) are achieved with a fairly basic level of fitness. Seems to be a law of diminishing returns once you push past a certain point with your physique, i.e. an awful lot of extra effort for relatively little reward. Guys will have other reasons for taking it to that extra level, but I'm mindful that it doesn't make much economic sense when we're talking pure SMV.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup:Zarky said:Just maintain a healthy exercise routine that includes moderate resistance training (weights) as well as moderate aerobic training. Don't neglect certain body parts. Eat a balanced diet.
After a couple of years of this you'll be healthy & fit and you will have maxed out your genetic potential. Make a lifestyle of it, stop looking obsessively in the mirror, and you'll be as attractive as you can be to women.
Maxing out your overall genetic potential in moderation is far more likely to get women hot for you than busting out 20" biceps. Unless of course you're going for trashy jersey shore gym rats. Then by all means, juice up, get your fake tan going, and put your gold chain on.
Same readership tripped over themselves to see naked muscled steroid-using actors in Magic Mike.Scaramouche said:The Following is an article in an Australian Ladies COSMOPOLITAN Magazine,