Since "myself" is an awesome guy, sure, being ME is great. However, being like most sheeple is not. If I wasn't a black belt, gunsmith, proven AA IPSC shottist, etc, I'd not be happy with me at all. I long ago achieved the things that I wanted most. Women rank several places below the things that matter most to me, and "the woman" has to be top notch in all the categories that I care about, or she doesn't rate consideration at all. the number one category? She has to really believe that I am hot stuff.