"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why aren't men chivalrous anymore?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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SmooveMooves
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logicallefty
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Man opens door for himself = 1 door
Woman opens door for herself = 1 door
See, 1 = 1. Just what you wanted.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Moy_1974
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Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
salinechow
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Honestly though...Opening doors for instance…
Doors used be made of steel or wood. Heavy and a struggle for a woman to manage. So that’s where the custom came from. Modern doors, like the one on my car, they open pretty easy nowadays. Let me know if its too heavy and Ill help out and also Ill skip dinner and get you gym membership.
Look, if a chick is walking over a slippery and icey surface (like tonight) you bet your a$$ I am holding her and helping her to make sure she dosnt bust her a$$ and get hurt or embarrassed on my watch.
Chick needs a hand managing a large purchase at the store into her car or onto the roof of said vehicle, yea, Ill stop and be a human and help her. She obviously needs it.
As far as a$$ kissing my way around a date as some qualification of my gentlemanliness. F^ck that noise. Ill pay because I asked you out. Invitation implication. But open your own f^cking car door. Im not treating you like a princess until you act like one. Sorry, did that sh!t for years and it just does not pay off for anyone. Its bad psycology anyway.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's even more hurtful to hear a European guy talk like this. chivalry is a European tradition that has been going on for hundreds of years... It's sad that feminists have killed it. You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?Moy_1974 said:
Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
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This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide itLove<3 said:
AttackFormation
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Do you honestly think this is not some guy member of our forum trolling?LuckyStrike88 said:This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it
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Doesn't help that so many girls have let themselves go and become overweight / nasty though. Much as I love women, girls that let themselves go in this way are sexually invisible to me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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