Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why aren't men chivalrous anymore?

Love<3

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Well, they complain about feminists and that is understandable. But even if you visit strongly anti feminist places, most men still don't do it. Why?

We women love white knights <3
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmooveMooves said:
Because bítches ain't shít but hoes and tricks.
With an attitude like that, don't expect a nice girl...lol, you would probably end up with a feminist girl because all the nice girls will run away from you
 

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Women wanted equality, we gave it to them.

Man opens door for himself = 1 door

Woman opens door for herself = 1 door

See, 1 = 1. Just what you wanted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.

Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
 

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Chivalry isn’t dead. It works pretty good on some girls. ;-)

Honestly though...Opening doors for instance…
Doors used be made of steel or wood. Heavy and a struggle for a woman to manage. So that’s where the custom came from. Modern doors, like the one on my car, they open pretty easy nowadays. Let me know if its too heavy and Ill help out and also Ill skip dinner and get you gym membership.

Look, if a chick is walking over a slippery and icey surface (like tonight) you bet your a$$ I am holding her and helping her to make sure she dosnt bust her a$$ and get hurt or embarrassed on my watch.
Chick needs a hand managing a large purchase at the store into her car or onto the roof of said vehicle, yea, Ill stop and be a human and help her. She obviously needs it.

As far as a$$ kissing my way around a date as some qualification of my gentlemanliness. F^ck that noise. Ill pay because I asked you out. Invitation implication. But open your own f^cking car door. Im not treating you like a princess until you act like one. Sorry, did that sh!t for years and it just does not pay off for anyone. Its bad psycology anyway.
 

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OP is Naughty Ninja trolling under a different account name. Pathetic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Moy_1974 said:
Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.

Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
It's even more hurtful to hear a European guy talk like this. chivalry is a European tradition that has been going on for hundreds of years... It's sad that feminists have killed it. You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?

Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
 
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Love<3 said:
It's even sadder to hear a European guy talk like this because chivalry is a European tradition! You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?

Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it :up:
 

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LuckyStrike88 said:
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it :up:
Do you honestly think this is not some guy member of our forum trolling?
 

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A lot of dudes have been badly advised and there's a lot of misogyny out there.

Doesn't help that so many girls have let themselves go and become overweight / nasty though. Much as I love women, girls that let themselves go in this way are sexually invisible to me.
 

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Because a lot of women have taken advantage of it. It's no longer seen as chivalry. It's seen as weak. Women have been treated like princesses for a long time and then when equality and feminists have come into play more was demanded. No longer are men needed by women. Only rich, strong, and socially loved men are needed by women. Chivalry is dead and it's not coming back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
 

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Fr. Andrew said:
Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
Well, of course... Ur NOT supposed to be chivalrous to feminist. Treat them exactly how you treat men. If she slaps/punches you, punch that dyke twice as hard!
 

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Love<3 said:
Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
A woman acting like a p0rnstar during sechs makes makes it much more exciting for the guy. :moon:
 

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Naughty Ninja strikes again. You guys are gullible.
 
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