I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
With an attitude like that, don't expect a nice girl...lol, you would probably end up with a feminist girl because all the nice girls will run away from youSmooveMooves said:Because bítches ain't shít but hoes and tricks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Go away.Love<3 said:We women love white knights <3
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's even more hurtful to hear a European guy talk like this. chivalry is a European tradition that has been going on for hundreds of years... It's sad that feminists have killed it. You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?Moy_1974 said:Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.
Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide itLove<3 said:It's even sadder to hear a European guy talk like this because chivalry is a European tradition! You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?
Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
Do you honestly think this is not some guy member of our forum trolling?LuckyStrike88 said:This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well, of course... Ur NOT supposed to be chivalrous to feminist. Treat them exactly how you treat men. If she slaps/punches you, punch that dyke twice as hard!Fr. Andrew said:Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
A woman acting like a p0rnstar during sechs makes makes it much more exciting for the guy. :moon:Love<3 said:Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us