"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why aren't men chivalrous anymore?

Love<3

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Well, they complain about feminists and that is understandable. But even if you visit strongly anti feminist places, most men still don't do it. Why?

We women love white knights <3
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SmooveMooves said:
Because bítches ain't shít but hoes and tricks.
With an attitude like that, don't expect a nice girl...lol, you would probably end up with a feminist girl because all the nice girls will run away from you
 

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Women wanted equality, we gave it to them.

Man opens door for himself = 1 door

Woman opens door for herself = 1 door

See, 1 = 1. Just what you wanted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.

Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
 

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Chivalry isn’t dead. It works pretty good on some girls. ;-)

Honestly though...Opening doors for instance…
Doors used be made of steel or wood. Heavy and a struggle for a woman to manage. So that’s where the custom came from. Modern doors, like the one on my car, they open pretty easy nowadays. Let me know if its too heavy and Ill help out and also Ill skip dinner and get you gym membership.

Look, if a chick is walking over a slippery and icey surface (like tonight) you bet your a$$ I am holding her and helping her to make sure she dosnt bust her a$$ and get hurt or embarrassed on my watch.
Chick needs a hand managing a large purchase at the store into her car or onto the roof of said vehicle, yea, Ill stop and be a human and help her. She obviously needs it.

As far as a$$ kissing my way around a date as some qualification of my gentlemanliness. F^ck that noise. Ill pay because I asked you out. Invitation implication. But open your own f^cking car door. Im not treating you like a princess until you act like one. Sorry, did that sh!t for years and it just does not pay off for anyone. Its bad psycology anyway.
 

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OP is Naughty Ninja trolling under a different account name. Pathetic.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Moy_1974 said:
Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.

Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
It's even more hurtful to hear a European guy talk like this. chivalry is a European tradition that has been going on for hundreds of years... It's sad that feminists have killed it. You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?

Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
 
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Love<3 said:
It's even sadder to hear a European guy talk like this because chivalry is a European tradition! You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?

Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it :up:
 

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LuckyStrike88 said:
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it :up:
Do you honestly think this is not some guy member of our forum trolling?
 

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A lot of dudes have been badly advised and there's a lot of misogyny out there.

Doesn't help that so many girls have let themselves go and become overweight / nasty though. Much as I love women, girls that let themselves go in this way are sexually invisible to me.
 

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Because a lot of women have taken advantage of it. It's no longer seen as chivalry. It's seen as weak. Women have been treated like princesses for a long time and then when equality and feminists have come into play more was demanded. No longer are men needed by women. Only rich, strong, and socially loved men are needed by women. Chivalry is dead and it's not coming back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
 

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Fr. Andrew said:
Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
Well, of course... Ur NOT supposed to be chivalrous to feminist. Treat them exactly how you treat men. If she slaps/punches you, punch that dyke twice as hard!
 

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Love<3 said:
Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
A woman acting like a p0rnstar during sechs makes makes it much more exciting for the guy. :moon:
 

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Naughty Ninja strikes again. You guys are gullible.
 
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