Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
With an attitude like that, don't expect a nice girl...lol, you would probably end up with a feminist girl because all the nice girls will run away from youSmooveMooves said:Because bítches ain't shít but hoes and tricks.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Go away.Love<3 said:We women love white knights <3
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's even more hurtful to hear a European guy talk like this. chivalry is a European tradition that has been going on for hundreds of years... It's sad that feminists have killed it. You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?Moy_1974 said:Feminism killed chivalry. Common courtesy is now seen as a facet of rape culture. Blame your sisters for that.
Equality = wait your f***ing turn like everybody else. You deserve nicer treatment because vagina? Get real.
This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide itLove<3 said:It's even sadder to hear a European guy talk like this because chivalry is a European tradition! You do know that there are plenty of anti feminist women around right?
Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us
Do you honestly think this is not some guy member of our forum trolling?LuckyStrike88 said:This whole thread is just another textbook example of women saying what they want, but wanting something else. Still abusing their position of advantage as always and trying to hide it![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, of course... Ur NOT supposed to be chivalrous to feminist. Treat them exactly how you treat men. If she slaps/punches you, punch that dyke twice as hard!Fr. Andrew said:Being chivalrous only works if the woman has lowered herself to the point where she appreciates it. I never hold the door open for feminists because frankly, they don't deserve the special attention.
A woman acting like a p0rnstar during sechs makes makes it much more exciting for the guy. :moon:Love<3 said:Why do some men hate chivalry so much? It makes sex more exciting for us women because it shows how much men actually love us