i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
why arent any girls on sosuave?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Eternal_water
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Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
Gro0ver
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I've seen advertisments that are aimed at females so i wouldn't be so sure. There's probably ones that lurk just for kicks or to try and understand and rationalise dj behaviour.Eternal_water said:Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
ezio said:i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk
There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.
Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.
Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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From my perspective, women are largely more hypocritical than men. A woman will say "any man who doesn't date a larger woman is a swallow moron", yet they'll drool over someone with a six pack and abs and will flat out refuse to date someone with a bit or a lot of man-tub on their body.
At least with men, you get a honest opinion, a frank assessment.
At least with men, you get a honest opinion, a frank assessment.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
ezio said:Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.
Hard-hitting, honest girls are hard enough to find in real life, let alone on a site dedicated to male issues. I think you'd agree.
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It's complicated. I can think of many reasons.
1. Some females have posted and been insulted by some SS members. Then they stopped posting. I tell female posters to have a thick skin lol. Of course, plenty of SS members are respectful and don't mind a friendly debate.
2. I don't think that many females are interested in this site. Or they quickly lose interest because it might SEEM like a bunch of misogynists.
3. They don't want to get swamped with PMs from guys hitting on them or asking 1000 questions lol.
4. With a few exceptions, I don't think females are interested in helping guys with this area of life. It's not necessarily some "We can't give our girly secrets out to men, the enemy" kind of conspiracy. It's more that most females have a binary or black and white view of men. You are either the attractive smooth "natural" or you are a loser, creeper. There is NO in between, and trying to "improve your game" or "make yourself more attractive" is looked at with scorn by most women. First, you were only an ugly loser. Now, in their eyes, you are a desperate TRYHARD loser who won't accept his lot in life, which is considered worse. F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond."
Notwithstanding, can some women give good honest advice? Yes, but it's not easy to find, and a guy needs some experience to tell the good advice from
the bad.
1. Some females have posted and been insulted by some SS members. Then they stopped posting. I tell female posters to have a thick skin lol. Of course, plenty of SS members are respectful and don't mind a friendly debate.
2. I don't think that many females are interested in this site. Or they quickly lose interest because it might SEEM like a bunch of misogynists.
3. They don't want to get swamped with PMs from guys hitting on them or asking 1000 questions lol.
4. With a few exceptions, I don't think females are interested in helping guys with this area of life. It's not necessarily some "We can't give our girly secrets out to men, the enemy" kind of conspiracy. It's more that most females have a binary or black and white view of men. You are either the attractive smooth "natural" or you are a loser, creeper. There is NO in between, and trying to "improve your game" or "make yourself more attractive" is looked at with scorn by most women. First, you were only an ugly loser. Now, in their eyes, you are a desperate TRYHARD loser who won't accept his lot in life, which is considered worse. F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond."
Notwithstanding, can some women give good honest advice? Yes, but it's not easy to find, and a guy needs some experience to tell the good advice from
the bad.
This is absolute gold.Mike32ct said:F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond
Agreed, when you're a natural ladies man, you're a charmer. When you try to become a ladies man, you're a creep.
I would only trust a woman's advice if I've seen her live what she preaches. If she says all girls want xyz, but she's banging a dude that offers abc, we have a problem.
Eternal_water
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No matter what anyone says I will only trust advice that is coming from guys, any advice from girls is getting discarded.
I'm more likely to do the exact opposite of what they say like be a nice guy, respect a girl - haha yeah, no thanks
I completely agree about them wanting 007 license to thrill but don't want you to be bond and certainly don't want to be for your eyes only
I'm more likely to do the exact opposite of what they say like be a nice guy, respect a girl - haha yeah, no thanks
I completely agree about them wanting 007 license to thrill but don't want you to be bond and certainly don't want to be for your eyes only
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Simply put, getting advice from a girl about the dating game is as reliable as getting a field sobriety test from a drunk.
If I want information on premenstrual cycles, I'll talk to a woman. If I want solid dating advice, I'll talk to a man. :yes:
If I want information on premenstrual cycles, I'll talk to a woman. If I want solid dating advice, I'll talk to a man. :yes:
i do my best to run them off when they appear
the vast majority of women have no experience dating women and are thus not qualified to give advice
in addition, women tend to communicate indirectly and will likely answer questions in a way that makes them look good and makes you feel good, regardless of the truth or what they actually believe
the vast majority of women have no experience dating women and are thus not qualified to give advice
in addition, women tend to communicate indirectly and will likely answer questions in a way that makes them look good and makes you feel good, regardless of the truth or what they actually believe
timmylivingalie
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ExactlyIceberg said:There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.
Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.