i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
why arent any girls on sosuave?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Eternal_water
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Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
Gro0ver
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I've seen advertisments that are aimed at females so i wouldn't be so sure. There's probably ones that lurk just for kicks or to try and understand and rationalise dj behaviour.Eternal_water said:Can't trust their opinions anyway, how often do you hear them say they want nice sensitive guys?
I've heard it pretty often and in alot of cases it seems they don't actually know what they wan't themselves.
I don't believe a girl would genuinely give real advice on how to pick them up, they prefer to keep the power.
besides we don't really want them picking up on our tactics do we
Iceberg
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ezio said:i've observed an absence of females on this forum. granted this is a male oriented forum but since it deals mainly with male female interactions i believe a female's opinion is occasionally needed to put things in proper perspective. I think there were a few around back in the days but you guys probably scared them off with your misogynist talk and PUA lingo..lol jk
There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.
Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.
Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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From my perspective, women are largely more hypocritical than men. A woman will say "any man who doesn't date a larger woman is a swallow moron", yet they'll drool over someone with a six pack and abs and will flat out refuse to date someone with a bit or a lot of man-tub on their body.
At least with men, you get a honest opinion, a frank assessment.
At least with men, you get a honest opinion, a frank assessment.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
ezio said:Interesting points but i'm referring to hard hitting girls who call it as it is. not the lovey dovey i like nice guys but still date jerks kind of girls. For instance a guy with oneitis who is being strung along by a chick would rather accept the truth from a girl than from a guy.
Hard-hitting, honest girls are hard enough to find in real life, let alone on a site dedicated to male issues. I think you'd agree.
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It's complicated. I can think of many reasons.
1. Some females have posted and been insulted by some SS members. Then they stopped posting. I tell female posters to have a thick skin lol. Of course, plenty of SS members are respectful and don't mind a friendly debate.
2. I don't think that many females are interested in this site. Or they quickly lose interest because it might SEEM like a bunch of misogynists.
3. They don't want to get swamped with PMs from guys hitting on them or asking 1000 questions lol.
4. With a few exceptions, I don't think females are interested in helping guys with this area of life. It's not necessarily some "We can't give our girly secrets out to men, the enemy" kind of conspiracy. It's more that most females have a binary or black and white view of men. You are either the attractive smooth "natural" or you are a loser, creeper. There is NO in between, and trying to "improve your game" or "make yourself more attractive" is looked at with scorn by most women. First, you were only an ugly loser. Now, in their eyes, you are a desperate TRYHARD loser who won't accept his lot in life, which is considered worse. F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond."
Notwithstanding, can some women give good honest advice? Yes, but it's not easy to find, and a guy needs some experience to tell the good advice from
the bad.
1. Some females have posted and been insulted by some SS members. Then they stopped posting. I tell female posters to have a thick skin lol. Of course, plenty of SS members are respectful and don't mind a friendly debate.
2. I don't think that many females are interested in this site. Or they quickly lose interest because it might SEEM like a bunch of misogynists.
3. They don't want to get swamped with PMs from guys hitting on them or asking 1000 questions lol.
4. With a few exceptions, I don't think females are interested in helping guys with this area of life. It's not necessarily some "We can't give our girly secrets out to men, the enemy" kind of conspiracy. It's more that most females have a binary or black and white view of men. You are either the attractive smooth "natural" or you are a loser, creeper. There is NO in between, and trying to "improve your game" or "make yourself more attractive" is looked at with scorn by most women. First, you were only an ugly loser. Now, in their eyes, you are a desperate TRYHARD loser who won't accept his lot in life, which is considered worse. F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond."
Notwithstanding, can some women give good honest advice? Yes, but it's not easy to find, and a guy needs some experience to tell the good advice from
the bad.
This is absolute gold.Mike32ct said:F283000 said it best, "Women want James Bond. They just don't want you to become James Bond
Agreed, when you're a natural ladies man, you're a charmer. When you try to become a ladies man, you're a creep.
I would only trust a woman's advice if I've seen her live what she preaches. If she says all girls want xyz, but she's banging a dude that offers abc, we have a problem.
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No matter what anyone says I will only trust advice that is coming from guys, any advice from girls is getting discarded.
I'm more likely to do the exact opposite of what they say like be a nice guy, respect a girl - haha yeah, no thanks
I completely agree about them wanting 007 license to thrill but don't want you to be bond and certainly don't want to be for your eyes only
I'm more likely to do the exact opposite of what they say like be a nice guy, respect a girl - haha yeah, no thanks
I completely agree about them wanting 007 license to thrill but don't want you to be bond and certainly don't want to be for your eyes only
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Simply put, getting advice from a girl about the dating game is as reliable as getting a field sobriety test from a drunk.
If I want information on premenstrual cycles, I'll talk to a woman. If I want solid dating advice, I'll talk to a man. :yes:
If I want information on premenstrual cycles, I'll talk to a woman. If I want solid dating advice, I'll talk to a man. :yes:
i do my best to run them off when they appear
the vast majority of women have no experience dating women and are thus not qualified to give advice
in addition, women tend to communicate indirectly and will likely answer questions in a way that makes them look good and makes you feel good, regardless of the truth or what they actually believe
the vast majority of women have no experience dating women and are thus not qualified to give advice
in addition, women tend to communicate indirectly and will likely answer questions in a way that makes them look good and makes you feel good, regardless of the truth or what they actually believe
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ExactlyIceberg said:There are one or two steady female posters who have been here for a few years. The average girl, however, is useless in giving advice on how to pursue women.
Imagine what a gazelle would say if a lion asked him for advice on hunting.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.