Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who is she and what happened? Why dont you include thr entire story. Besides the US of A no one in the world likes eggs ball
Or like Australian Rules Football, or Canadian Football. However I have never seen an egg shaped like an American football so I don't get that pejorative.
Without any context, she looks good. She's young, has a cute face, and is slender/athletic. Most ordinary guys would enjoy dating her.
More details will important here.Who is she and what happened? Why dont you include thr entire story. Besides the US of A no one in the world likes eggs ball
The idea that relationships have expiration dates is important. It's an idea that I have promoted on this forum over time. Most relationships that last longer than 5 years are past their expiration date of goodness. They often continue well past 5 years but the best times (or even good times) are over.
Yes that is something you said over and over again and you are absolutely right.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Point taken. Yeah I get it. Though an American football is also kicked and punted with the foot. Just not frequently.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She's a 5/10. I went on a date with a 21 year old girl who looked better than her a few weeks ago.
Because men have a tendency to use sex to subdue their mental problems.
3/10 Alliteration Game
I like to call it "the one sport that can be played by herd animals"