Some will be nervous around me or when they see me coming towards them they'll have this scared/nervous look on their face. I'm not ugly, but I am black. I don't dress urban at all, just preppy, and my voice sounds white. I never thought I looked scary.
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Why are some girls scared of me
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Who cares? It's just in your head. ...Trust me. Just worry about self improvement. Don't overanalyze what other girls think of you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Maybe they're scared of trolls.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Couldn't have said it any better!Iceberg said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Cool story bro.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I know it's not fair, but you being black could be the reason why they react to you that way.JPlaya said:
Many people are uncomfortable with the sight of a black man coming their way.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Maybe cause your a creepy herb?
Being black could be your problem then again you might give off a scary vibe. Or the fact that you don't dress urban and you talk white is why they don't want to be with you. Because to be honest the reason why most white women or women general are attract to black dudes is because we have a bad boy image.
Well im black dude and have no problem getting white girls matter fact i have easier time white girl then i do black one. But i screw all races same color on the inside. You might want to trying smiling as you approach or being less preppy.
Well im black dude and have no problem getting white girls matter fact i have easier time white girl then i do black one. But i screw all races same color on the inside. You might want to trying smiling as you approach or being less preppy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.