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Why are some girls scared of me

JPlaya

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Some will be nervous around me or when they see me coming towards them they'll have this scared/nervous look on their face. I'm not ugly, but I am black. I don't dress urban at all, just preppy, and my voice sounds white. I never thought I looked scary.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Who cares? It's just in your head. ...Trust me. Just worry about self improvement. Don't overanalyze what other girls think of you.
 

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Maybe they're scared of trolls.
 

JPlaya

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Iceberg said:
Maybe they're scared of trolls.
I'm one of the most notorious trolls on the internet. You want to see me troll than I'll do it and completely **** up this site. You do not want me troll.
 

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JPlaya said:
I'm one of the most notorious trolls on the internet. You want to see me troll than I'll do it and completely **** up this site. You do not want me troll.
You need to ask yourself why your life is so empty that you have to resort to begging for attention on internet message boards
 

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JPlaya said:
Some will be nervous around me or when they see me coming towards them they'll have this scared/nervous look on their face. I'm not ugly, but I am black. I don't dress urban at all, just preppy, and my voice sounds white. I never thought I looked scary.
I know it's not fair, but you being black could be the reason why they react to you that way.

Many people are uncomfortable with the sight of a black man coming their way.
 

crazyboy

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Being black could be your problem then again you might give off a scary vibe. Or the fact that you don't dress urban and you talk white is why they don't want to be with you. Because to be honest the reason why most white women or women general are attract to black dudes is because we have a bad boy image.

Well im black dude and have no problem getting white girls matter fact i have easier time white girl then i do black one. But i screw all races same color on the inside. You might want to trying smiling as you approach or being less preppy.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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