Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jacked is jacked. Jacked=bodybuilder build.*sigh* If a woman trains long enough consistently, eats a caloric surplus and takes steps to account for her disadvantages as a woman she can become 'jacked.'
What we seem to be disagreeing on is what I mean by 'jacked.' Im refering to the girls that look like then 3rd woman @Rex posted. (Not the bodybuilder)
IMO that is too athletic and fit and I see no reason for a woman to look like that.
To each his own though.
Wait you're saying I don't have to date muscular women? This changes everythingFair enough - what you should know is that the % of women that are ripped and have bulging muscles is very very low indeed. They should be easy for you to avoid. Furthermore, most bodybuilders, men and women, are only in a ripped bulging state for a very short period of time, before a competition.
The solution is very easy - like fat girls, if muscular girls don't do it for you, don't date them.