Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jacked is jacked. Jacked=bodybuilder build.*sigh* If a woman trains long enough consistently, eats a caloric surplus and takes steps to account for her disadvantages as a woman she can become 'jacked.'
What we seem to be disagreeing on is what I mean by 'jacked.' Im refering to the girls that look like then 3rd woman @Rex posted. (Not the bodybuilder)
IMO that is too athletic and fit and I see no reason for a woman to look like that.
To each his own though.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wait you're saying I don't have to date muscular women? This changes everythingFair enough - what you should know is that the % of women that are ripped and have bulging muscles is very very low indeed. They should be easy for you to avoid. Furthermore, most bodybuilders, men and women, are only in a ripped bulging state for a very short period of time, before a competition.
The solution is very easy - like fat girls, if muscular girls don't do it for you, don't date them.