You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jacked is jacked. Jacked=bodybuilder build.*sigh* If a woman trains long enough consistently, eats a caloric surplus and takes steps to account for her disadvantages as a woman she can become 'jacked.'
What we seem to be disagreeing on is what I mean by 'jacked.' Im refering to the girls that look like then 3rd woman @Rex posted. (Not the bodybuilder)
IMO that is too athletic and fit and I see no reason for a woman to look like that.
To each his own though.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wait you're saying I don't have to date muscular women? This changes everythingFair enough - what you should know is that the % of women that are ripped and have bulging muscles is very very low indeed. They should be easy for you to avoid. Furthermore, most bodybuilders, men and women, are only in a ripped bulging state for a very short period of time, before a competition.
The solution is very easy - like fat girls, if muscular girls don't do it for you, don't date them.