"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why am I only attracting women that smoke?

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I'm 51, widowed and a non-smoker, all the women that have been interested in a relationship with have been smokers. All the non-smokers have LJBFed me. I really can't figure this out, especially since I mostly hunt for women in churches. Are women smokers more sexual than non-smokers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol. i often find myself in the same smoke-filled boat (cough, gag!).
 

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I go to a non-dominational 'full gospel' church which has a live band for services. What's a rasta?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rastafarian.

they believe smoking weed is a holy sacrement.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Unfortunately many women still see smoking as one of the most viable methods of weight control so they choose the lesser of two evils.
 

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I find it easer to talk to women in the smokers section of a club. If they offer a cigarette I just say, "sorry I don't smoke, I just hang out in the smokers section because I have a secret fetish to be with a women while shes smoking."
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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wolf116 said:
I find it easer to talk to women in the smokers section of a club. If they offer a cigarette I just say, "sorry I don't smoke, I just hang out in the smokers section because I have a secret fetish to be with a women while shes smoking."
Yeah, those little lines that they get around their mouths are so sexy.....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not to mention that rough, leathery skin, Francisco (especially for those who tan a lot, too).
 

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KarmaSutra said:
You need to reframe your point of view:

If she smokes, she swallows.
Same difference. I don't kiss a woman after she smokes and I don't kiss one after she swallows.
 
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