"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why am I only attracting women that smoke?

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I'm 51, widowed and a non-smoker, all the women that have been interested in a relationship with have been smokers. All the non-smokers have LJBFed me. I really can't figure this out, especially since I mostly hunt for women in churches. Are women smokers more sexual than non-smokers?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bonhomme

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lol. i often find myself in the same smoke-filled boat (cough, gag!).
 

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I go to a non-dominational 'full gospel' church which has a live band for services. What's a rasta?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rastafarian.

they believe smoking weed is a holy sacrement.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Unfortunately many women still see smoking as one of the most viable methods of weight control so they choose the lesser of two evils.
 

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I find it easer to talk to women in the smokers section of a club. If they offer a cigarette I just say, "sorry I don't smoke, I just hang out in the smokers section because I have a secret fetish to be with a women while shes smoking."
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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wolf116 said:
I find it easer to talk to women in the smokers section of a club. If they offer a cigarette I just say, "sorry I don't smoke, I just hang out in the smokers section because I have a secret fetish to be with a women while shes smoking."
Yeah, those little lines that they get around their mouths are so sexy.....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not to mention that rough, leathery skin, Francisco (especially for those who tan a lot, too).
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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KarmaSutra said:
You need to reframe your point of view:

If she smokes, she swallows.
Same difference. I don't kiss a woman after she smokes and I don't kiss one after she swallows.
 
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