zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
oh and a shout out to the lunch lady!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Who was the best girl you ever Dated??
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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There was one girl, she wasn't beautiful (HB6 or 7 at most), she wasn't a comedian (although I liked her laugh), and she wasn't a nuclear physicist (just a regular chick). But I'll always remember her, because she was the first - and only - woman I met who never judged anyone. She'd just accept them for who they are.
I mean yeah she wouldn't put up with morons and wankers, but she'd never try to pass judgements or make assumptions about people. I liked that. Irony is, I ended up judging her, and gave her up because of that.
I mean yeah she wouldn't put up with morons and wankers, but she'd never try to pass judgements or make assumptions about people. I liked that. Irony is, I ended up judging her, and gave her up because of that.
Nah, dude. Call her - tell her you were lookin through your phonebook and you saw her number and figured "what the hell?" Ask her if she wants to catch up over coffee or something. Seriously.
I just did that yesterday with a girl I dated two years ago. I text-messaged her after not talking to her for like 1.5 years. She got a new cat - I'm gonna meet him.
~Sloopy
Hell Yea it would seem desprate. Don't call. R u still unemployed? If so then yeah it would seem very desperate. If she was as good as u said she was then she has probably moved on and found herself another guy, a guy that her father approved of and forgotten about u. If anything wait until u bump into her somewhere by "accident".
But hey I ain't got no experience under my belt so how the **** would I kno.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This the bragging thread or what?
Current girl is my best.
An 8.5 or 9 (5'1, skinny, 22 yo, dirty blonde, D cup that doesn't sag (how?! - not fake), tight round ass.. i like shorties)
Voted best hair and was prom queen in high school (haha i fcuked the prom queen!)
Always has something interesting to say. *Talkative*
Funny.
Sarcastic.
Doesn't complain.
Works out several nights a week.
Wants constant sex.
She randomly txts me "Geeze.i just feel like i cant get enough of you" and likes to say "doooo me"
Pays her own way and will just pay for stuff without me asking (movie rentals, dinner, etc)
Has a degree.
Comes over. Wants to drink wine that she buys, play nintendo, then screw me for 3 hours, fall asleep, and do me again before work in the morning.
Watches Sex and the City and makes fun of how dumb it is.
Dislikes feminism.
Trained her own german shepherd that will bite the hell out of anyone who comes in uninvited.
Always in a good mood. Happy.
Outgoing as all hell. Can talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime.
Tends to agree to do nearly anything I want to do.
Most of her friends are actually quality females (i'm kinda sick of girls with mostly guy friends)
Loves giving BJs. :woo:
Comes to watch me play softball.
Current girl is my best.
An 8.5 or 9 (5'1, skinny, 22 yo, dirty blonde, D cup that doesn't sag (how?! - not fake), tight round ass.. i like shorties)
Voted best hair and was prom queen in high school (haha i fcuked the prom queen!)
Always has something interesting to say. *Talkative*
Funny.
Sarcastic.
Doesn't complain.
Works out several nights a week.
Wants constant sex.
She randomly txts me "Geeze.i just feel like i cant get enough of you" and likes to say "doooo me"
Pays her own way and will just pay for stuff without me asking (movie rentals, dinner, etc)
Has a degree.
Comes over. Wants to drink wine that she buys, play nintendo, then screw me for 3 hours, fall asleep, and do me again before work in the morning.
Watches Sex and the City and makes fun of how dumb it is.
Dislikes feminism.
Trained her own german shepherd that will bite the hell out of anyone who comes in uninvited.
Always in a good mood. Happy.
Outgoing as all hell. Can talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime.
Tends to agree to do nearly anything I want to do.
Most of her friends are actually quality females (i'm kinda sick of girls with mostly guy friends)
Loves giving BJs. :woo:
Comes to watch me play softball.
Well, the best girl I ever dated was my ex girlfriend the second time around.
The first time I dated her she was shy, and a bit reserved. Wasn't into sex too much.
We broke up, and she went to college. I she became a cheeleader and joind a sorrity in college her first year. From what I heard she started messing around with the basketball players (bangged like 4 or 5 of them).
When she came home for the summer, we hooked up. She was a straight up freak. Guess she got turned out away at school. But seriously, the girl loved giving head, and took it up the azz.
I asked her after a few weeks what got into her. She said "Honestly, I started banging black guys, and learned to like sex"
The first time I dated her she was shy, and a bit reserved. Wasn't into sex too much.
We broke up, and she went to college. I she became a cheeleader and joind a sorrity in college her first year. From what I heard she started messing around with the basketball players (bangged like 4 or 5 of them).
When she came home for the summer, we hooked up. She was a straight up freak. Guess she got turned out away at school. But seriously, the girl loved giving head, and took it up the azz.
I asked her after a few weeks what got into her. She said "Honestly, I started banging black guys, and learned to like sex"