"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who is more attractive? (sh!t test)

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I was talking to one of my prospectst eh other day and I'm pretty sure i got sh!t tested. I was joking around, sort of sexual conversation. Somehow we got on the subject of lesbians, and how most of the acutal lesbians are ugly and nothing like the porn lesbians. I said (in a semi-sarcastic tone) that it would be hot if she were to make out with one of her good looking friends. This is where i think the test began.

Her: Who do you think is more attractive, me or (frined's name here)?
Me (sarcastically): Hmmmmm that's a tough one.
She started to get indignant on me
Me: I'm just kidding, if i thought that she was better looking, I'd probably be on a date with her right now instead of you.

Has anyone else ever gotten this test? Any opinions on how I handled it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't think you should of said you were kidding. It's like your afraid to offend her.
 
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You done real good kid.

You KINDA make it sound like the only reason you're with her is based on her looks. Tell her that her personality counts more.
 
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I probably wouldve said "Neither. you're both about 5's to me" then I would've given them a sly smile. And if they sit there looking pissed you can say, "But if I was drunk, I mean, REALLY drunk, I'd probably pick you (point to your girl)".
 
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lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by sjchris
lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
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It's all about tone of voice.
 
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