"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who is more attractive? (sh!t test)

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I was talking to one of my prospectst eh other day and I'm pretty sure i got sh!t tested. I was joking around, sort of sexual conversation. Somehow we got on the subject of lesbians, and how most of the acutal lesbians are ugly and nothing like the porn lesbians. I said (in a semi-sarcastic tone) that it would be hot if she were to make out with one of her good looking friends. This is where i think the test began.

Her: Who do you think is more attractive, me or (frined's name here)?
Me (sarcastically): Hmmmmm that's a tough one.
She started to get indignant on me
Me: I'm just kidding, if i thought that she was better looking, I'd probably be on a date with her right now instead of you.

Has anyone else ever gotten this test? Any opinions on how I handled it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think you should of said you were kidding. It's like your afraid to offend her.
 
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You done real good kid.

You KINDA make it sound like the only reason you're with her is based on her looks. Tell her that her personality counts more.
 
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I probably wouldve said "Neither. you're both about 5's to me" then I would've given them a sly smile. And if they sit there looking pissed you can say, "But if I was drunk, I mean, REALLY drunk, I'd probably pick you (point to your girl)".
 
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lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by sjchris
lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
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It's all about tone of voice.
 
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