“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who is more attractive? (sh!t test)

immrtlwun

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I was talking to one of my prospectst eh other day and I'm pretty sure i got sh!t tested. I was joking around, sort of sexual conversation. Somehow we got on the subject of lesbians, and how most of the acutal lesbians are ugly and nothing like the porn lesbians. I said (in a semi-sarcastic tone) that it would be hot if she were to make out with one of her good looking friends. This is where i think the test began.

Her: Who do you think is more attractive, me or (frined's name here)?
Me (sarcastically): Hmmmmm that's a tough one.
She started to get indignant on me
Me: I'm just kidding, if i thought that she was better looking, I'd probably be on a date with her right now instead of you.

Has anyone else ever gotten this test? Any opinions on how I handled it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't think you should of said you were kidding. It's like your afraid to offend her.
 

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You done real good kid.

You KINDA make it sound like the only reason you're with her is based on her looks. Tell her that her personality counts more.
 

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I probably wouldve said "Neither. you're both about 5's to me" then I would've given them a sly smile. And if they sit there looking pissed you can say, "But if I was drunk, I mean, REALLY drunk, I'd probably pick you (point to your girl)".
 

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lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by sjchris
lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
It's all about tone of voice.
 
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