"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Who is more attractive? (sh!t test)

I

immrtlwun

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
289
Reaction score
0
I was talking to one of my prospectst eh other day and I'm pretty sure i got sh!t tested. I was joking around, sort of sexual conversation. Somehow we got on the subject of lesbians, and how most of the acutal lesbians are ugly and nothing like the porn lesbians. I said (in a semi-sarcastic tone) that it would be hot if she were to make out with one of her good looking friends. This is where i think the test began.

Her: Who do you think is more attractive, me or (frined's name here)?
Me (sarcastically): Hmmmmm that's a tough one.
She started to get indignant on me
Me: I'm just kidding, if i thought that she was better looking, I'd probably be on a date with her right now instead of you.

Has anyone else ever gotten this test? Any opinions on how I handled it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

I

itishe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2005
Messages
925
Reaction score
2
I don't think you should of said you were kidding. It's like your afraid to offend her.
 
A

AC/DC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,270
Reaction score
3
Age
38
Location
hyphy bay area, ca
You done real good kid.

You KINDA make it sound like the only reason you're with her is based on her looks. Tell her that her personality counts more.
 
S

sjchris

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2005
Messages
71
Reaction score
0
I probably wouldve said "Neither. you're both about 5's to me" then I would've given them a sly smile. And if they sit there looking pissed you can say, "But if I was drunk, I mean, REALLY drunk, I'd probably pick you (point to your girl)".
 
S

sjchris

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2005
Messages
71
Reaction score
0
lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

D

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by sjchris
lol I was just kidding but hey you could probably get away with that if you said it with enough confidence
Click to expand...
It's all about tone of voice.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top