"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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who is down to go to the next level

_sideways_

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Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal_water

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I would happily join up but the reality of us being on a forum is that we probably live thousands of miles away and therefore this is unrealistic.

I get the feeling most people on this forum live in America.
 

spiegel549

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_sideways_ said:
Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
If you come to LA at all let know. I'M DOWN.
 

hudpes

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Yea, I'd join you, it's just a small matter of about 7,000 miles :)
 

thunder_god

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I'm always down, but the reality is no one wants to go sarging here in Toronto.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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_sideways_

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So the dudes that responded already have their balls on the table. I encourage you to keep going and i give you my good thoughts when you doubt yourself.

For all the talk we do on here about how things wont change until dudes stop doing this or start doing that...i invited at least 3 bay area DJs to win with me and declined.

So can we really trust their words behind a screen.

All the excuses in the world dont matter except..im gonna die one day so why not?


Players gonna play lol
 

Rainman4707

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That's what the Wingman forum is for right. I'd be game. I asked a guy who lives in my city (a fellow donjuan) to go out in town last year.

I don't live in USA.
 

mr. kennedy

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I would be down if we lived in the same town. I'm looking for sarging buddies.
 
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