"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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who is down to go to the next level

_sideways_

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Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal_water

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I would happily join up but the reality of us being on a forum is that we probably live thousands of miles away and therefore this is unrealistic.

I get the feeling most people on this forum live in America.
 

spiegel549

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_sideways_ said:
Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
If you come to LA at all let know. I'M DOWN.
 

hudpes

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Yea, I'd join you, it's just a small matter of about 7,000 miles :)
 

thunder_god

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I'm always down, but the reality is no one wants to go sarging here in Toronto.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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_sideways_

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So the dudes that responded already have their balls on the table. I encourage you to keep going and i give you my good thoughts when you doubt yourself.

For all the talk we do on here about how things wont change until dudes stop doing this or start doing that...i invited at least 3 bay area DJs to win with me and declined.

So can we really trust their words behind a screen.

All the excuses in the world dont matter except..im gonna die one day so why not?


Players gonna play lol
 

Rainman4707

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That's what the Wingman forum is for right. I'd be game. I asked a guy who lives in my city (a fellow donjuan) to go out in town last year.

I don't live in USA.
 

mr. kennedy

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I would be down if we lived in the same town. I'm looking for sarging buddies.
 
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