"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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who is down to go to the next level

_sideways_

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Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eternal_water

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I would happily join up but the reality of us being on a forum is that we probably live thousands of miles away and therefore this is unrealistic.

I get the feeling most people on this forum live in America.
 

spiegel549

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_sideways_ said:
Everyone talks a good game here, yet when i invite dudes to come away from the screen and into real life, they decline.

Everyone likes the movie fight club, so whos down to make this shyt real. Lets form a group and meet up at a public place and go out there like a pride of lions.

I realize this is asking a lot from the interweb, but...we have a big chance to win in our favor. I know the best excuse is that it will interfere with your life in any way...so you dont count.

Only real dudes who want to go out and enjoy women in all ways.

Im not gonna lie, im talking to hb10s down to hb2s...i get free rides, movie, drinks, bjs, etc.

But its not eenoughthat i alone do this.

Lets make a stand here.

San fFranciscobay area.

Otherwise you have lost me and im coming after yours too
If you come to LA at all let know. I'M DOWN.
 

hudpes

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Yea, I'd join you, it's just a small matter of about 7,000 miles :)
 

thunder_god

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I'm always down, but the reality is no one wants to go sarging here in Toronto.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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_sideways_

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So the dudes that responded already have their balls on the table. I encourage you to keep going and i give you my good thoughts when you doubt yourself.

For all the talk we do on here about how things wont change until dudes stop doing this or start doing that...i invited at least 3 bay area DJs to win with me and declined.

So can we really trust their words behind a screen.

All the excuses in the world dont matter except..im gonna die one day so why not?


Players gonna play lol
 

Rainman4707

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That's what the Wingman forum is for right. I'd be game. I asked a guy who lives in my city (a fellow donjuan) to go out in town last year.

I don't live in USA.
 

mr. kennedy

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I would be down if we lived in the same town. I'm looking for sarging buddies.
 
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