I am a fan of Robert Greens the AOS book I have the traits of the charmer I love giving women sincere compliments and making them feel special about themselves what tips would you give to a charmer and who would you say the greatest ever charmer.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who is a Charmer
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I've recently been trying to incorporate some charming traits to my game. Before I use to flat out ****y and funny all the time, didn't work at all and then I decided to mix it up. The key is complimenting them while giving them the idea that you're complimenting them because they've impressed you. Most guys I know compliment because they're trying to impress them and know they care (too much), interaction doesn't last long when this occurs.
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Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
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What? Absolute scumbag.MooseGod said:Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.