I am a fan of Robert Greens the AOS book I have the traits of the charmer I love giving women sincere compliments and making them feel special about themselves what tips would you give to a charmer and who would you say the greatest ever charmer.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I've recently been trying to incorporate some charming traits to my game. Before I use to flat out ****y and funny all the time, didn't work at all and then I decided to mix it up. The key is complimenting them while giving them the idea that you're complimenting them because they've impressed you. Most guys I know compliment because they're trying to impress them and know they care (too much), interaction doesn't last long when this occurs.
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Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
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What? Absolute scumbag.MooseGod said:Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.