I am a fan of Robert Greens the AOS book I have the traits of the charmer I love giving women sincere compliments and making them feel special about themselves what tips would you give to a charmer and who would you say the greatest ever charmer.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I've recently been trying to incorporate some charming traits to my game. Before I use to flat out ****y and funny all the time, didn't work at all and then I decided to mix it up. The key is complimenting them while giving them the idea that you're complimenting them because they've impressed you. Most guys I know compliment because they're trying to impress them and know they care (too much), interaction doesn't last long when this occurs.
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Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
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What? Absolute scumbag.MooseGod said:Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.