"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Who is a Charmer

Gammergq

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2007
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
I am a fan of Robert Greens the AOS book I have the traits of the charmer I love giving women sincere compliments and making them feel special about themselves what tips would you give to a charmer and who would you say the greatest ever charmer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
I've recently been trying to incorporate some charming traits to my game. Before I use to flat out ****y and funny all the time, didn't work at all and then I decided to mix it up. The key is complimenting them while giving them the idea that you're complimenting them because they've impressed you. Most guys I know compliment because they're trying to impress them and know they care (too much), interaction doesn't last long when this occurs.
 

WC2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
1,700
Reaction score
69
Location
New York City
MooseGod said:
Anybody ever watch Weeds? The blond haired real-estate developer guy in the last couple episodes was pretty smooth...
What? Absolute scumbag.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Gammergq

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2007
Messages
46
Reaction score
0
Carry Grant the guy who they based the James bond charcter on.
 

DJVladdy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2007
Messages
1,037
Reaction score
17
I'm a rake, b1tcheeees. i didn't really like that book - too convoluted for me honestly
 
Top