"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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who got ideas on approaching an hb10.5 employee at a fitness center

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you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chilli said:
you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
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you = :cuss:

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Soprano said:
i despise "hey whats your opinion on....." approaches :cuss:
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If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
 
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remember guys, when you hear someone say, "it was an HBxx" always subtract 2.. hell, 3 usually.
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Remember, when someone says "always" anything, always disregard it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Classified as a hb10.5, eh?
As someone else said, sounds like you have this chick up on a pedestal before even talking to her, and we all know a pedestal is not the place for a chick. If anything, it's the other way around.
Even though she's a hb10.5 to you, there HAS to be something you can focus on about her which will make her seem less perfect. Find it, and for pete's sake, don't be getting a case of oneitis over some little chicka you've never talked to.
Think about this: it is her goal to attract guys, and she's doing a good job from what I can tell by looking so hot. So, she's got girl-game. Now it's up to you to NOT be the millionth guy to give her some lame a$$ line you've read on a bathroom stall wall, but instead be the Don Juan. The original. Someone who will not only turn her head, but also attract the admiration of others. You've heard it before - social proof. Approach with a mindset along those lines (congruent with your own personality), and your chances are good....
 
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If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
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i know man

these ****in family fued-ass niggas n ****...... tryin to pull a lil louie anderson on girls n ****.... a lil richard karn n **** u know
 
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