"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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who got ideas on approaching an hb10.5 employee at a fitness center

Chilli

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you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chilli said:
you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
you = :cuss:

:(
 

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Soprano said:
i despise "hey whats your opinion on....." approaches :cuss:

If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
 

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remember guys, when you hear someone say, "it was an HBxx" always subtract 2.. hell, 3 usually.

Remember, when someone says "always" anything, always disregard it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Classified as a hb10.5, eh?
As someone else said, sounds like you have this chick up on a pedestal before even talking to her, and we all know a pedestal is not the place for a chick. If anything, it's the other way around.
Even though she's a hb10.5 to you, there HAS to be something you can focus on about her which will make her seem less perfect. Find it, and for pete's sake, don't be getting a case of oneitis over some little chicka you've never talked to.
Think about this: it is her goal to attract guys, and she's doing a good job from what I can tell by looking so hot. So, she's got girl-game. Now it's up to you to NOT be the millionth guy to give her some lame a$$ line you've read on a bathroom stall wall, but instead be the Don Juan. The original. Someone who will not only turn her head, but also attract the admiration of others. You've heard it before - social proof. Approach with a mindset along those lines (congruent with your own personality), and your chances are good....
 

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mrRuckus said:
If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
i know man

these ****in family fued-ass niggas n ****...... tryin to pull a lil louie anderson on girls n ****.... a lil richard karn n **** u know
 
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