"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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who got ideas on approaching an hb10.5 employee at a fitness center

Chilli

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you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Soprano

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Chilli said:
you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
you = :cuss:

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Soprano said:
i despise "hey whats your opinion on....." approaches :cuss:

If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
 

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remember guys, when you hear someone say, "it was an HBxx" always subtract 2.. hell, 3 usually.

Remember, when someone says "always" anything, always disregard it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Classified as a hb10.5, eh?
As someone else said, sounds like you have this chick up on a pedestal before even talking to her, and we all know a pedestal is not the place for a chick. If anything, it's the other way around.
Even though she's a hb10.5 to you, there HAS to be something you can focus on about her which will make her seem less perfect. Find it, and for pete's sake, don't be getting a case of oneitis over some little chicka you've never talked to.
Think about this: it is her goal to attract guys, and she's doing a good job from what I can tell by looking so hot. So, she's got girl-game. Now it's up to you to NOT be the millionth guy to give her some lame a$$ line you've read on a bathroom stall wall, but instead be the Don Juan. The original. Someone who will not only turn her head, but also attract the admiration of others. You've heard it before - social proof. Approach with a mindset along those lines (congruent with your own personality), and your chances are good....
 

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mrRuckus said:
If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
i know man

these ****in family fued-ass niggas n ****...... tryin to pull a lil louie anderson on girls n ****.... a lil richard karn n **** u know
 
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