"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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who got ideas on approaching an hb10.5 employee at a fitness center

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you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chilli said:
you "despise hey whats your opinion on....." approaches, man, total respect is due to you.

Soprano your game must be super tight and you dont even need "opinion" openers, nice one.

The guy asked for ideas, ideas are given and he chooses what works, Thanks for your comments though,

Chilli.
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you = :cuss:

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Soprano said:
i despise "hey whats your opinion on....." approaches :cuss:
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If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
 
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remember guys, when you hear someone say, "it was an HBxx" always subtract 2.. hell, 3 usually.
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Remember, when someone says "always" anything, always disregard it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Classified as a hb10.5, eh?
As someone else said, sounds like you have this chick up on a pedestal before even talking to her, and we all know a pedestal is not the place for a chick. If anything, it's the other way around.
Even though she's a hb10.5 to you, there HAS to be something you can focus on about her which will make her seem less perfect. Find it, and for pete's sake, don't be getting a case of oneitis over some little chicka you've never talked to.
Think about this: it is her goal to attract guys, and she's doing a good job from what I can tell by looking so hot. So, she's got girl-game. Now it's up to you to NOT be the millionth guy to give her some lame a$$ line you've read on a bathroom stall wall, but instead be the Don Juan. The original. Someone who will not only turn her head, but also attract the admiration of others. You've heard it before - social proof. Approach with a mindset along those lines (congruent with your own personality), and your chances are good....
 
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If I was a girl and guy came up to me out of the blue and asked me some retarded question like he's doing a survey for the Family Feud i think i'd just burst out laughing.
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i know man

these ****in family fued-ass niggas n ****...... tryin to pull a lil louie anderson on girls n ****.... a lil richard karn n **** u know
 
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