Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Who else does this?

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so this might be retarded, I am cool with that

I check once in awhile how cute a girl is that i am hanging out with

its like this:

before sex - yeah she looks good

with lights dimmed/or in the dark - yeah she looks different but still cute

after sex, with her glowing or whatever- whether she looks good still


may be i need to confirm to my ego that yes this girl is still cute and i am making the right decision.. pretty messed up lol


when you add personality, the thing changes, its always +/- 2/3 points so a 7 can go to 9 or a 8 to 6... but last few girls i hooked up with i always kinda look at them at certain moments to check out how hot they make me feel... anyone else do this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That seems strange to me...... but with that said, when I am getting to know a new girl I will continue looking her over for qualities I desire as a justification to myself before I hit it. So in essence, that sounds like what you do too.
 

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Yeah I've done this before. The next morning after my drunk wore off..

Kidding, kinda. Haha.

But I know what you mean. Some girls look really good one day, but can be embarrassed to even be seen with another.

We men are raging full of testosterone. I think the ultimate test is to take a look at her after you've nutted and see how attractive she is then. If you still find her attractive, then she is probably is.

Some girls, after I nut I start to think, wow, did I just really do this? Not that they are hideously ugly. But when you are hard and ready to mingle, your d!ck does all your thinking for you. So you may not have a problem boning a HB7 at that moment. But your friends still might make fun of you if they find out about it. Make sense?
 

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Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amazing said:
Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
Dude who agreed with me - were you raised by a single mom?


Cause me and you are a little feminine brah
 
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