"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Who else does this?

Amazing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2005
Messages
645
Reaction score
17
Age
44
Location
ATL
so this might be retarded, I am cool with that

I check once in awhile how cute a girl is that i am hanging out with

its like this:

before sex - yeah she looks good

with lights dimmed/or in the dark - yeah she looks different but still cute

after sex, with her glowing or whatever- whether she looks good still


may be i need to confirm to my ego that yes this girl is still cute and i am making the right decision.. pretty messed up lol


when you add personality, the thing changes, its always +/- 2/3 points so a 7 can go to 9 or a 8 to 6... but last few girls i hooked up with i always kinda look at them at certain moments to check out how hot they make me feel... anyone else do this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

SoldMySoul

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2006
Messages
787
Reaction score
23
Location
Lousyiana
That seems strange to me...... but with that said, when I am getting to know a new girl I will continue looking her over for qualities I desire as a justification to myself before I hit it. So in essence, that sounds like what you do too.
 

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,126
Reaction score
1,002
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
Yeah I've done this before. The next morning after my drunk wore off..

Kidding, kinda. Haha.

But I know what you mean. Some girls look really good one day, but can be embarrassed to even be seen with another.

We men are raging full of testosterone. I think the ultimate test is to take a look at her after you've nutted and see how attractive she is then. If you still find her attractive, then she is probably is.

Some girls, after I nut I start to think, wow, did I just really do this? Not that they are hideously ugly. But when you are hard and ready to mingle, your d!ck does all your thinking for you. So you may not have a problem boning a HB7 at that moment. But your friends still might make fun of you if they find out about it. Make sense?
 

Amazing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2005
Messages
645
Reaction score
17
Age
44
Location
ATL
Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Amazing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2005
Messages
645
Reaction score
17
Age
44
Location
ATL
Amazing said:
Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
Dude who agreed with me - were you raised by a single mom?


Cause me and you are a little feminine brah
 
Top