"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who else does this?

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so this might be retarded, I am cool with that

I check once in awhile how cute a girl is that i am hanging out with

its like this:

before sex - yeah she looks good

with lights dimmed/or in the dark - yeah she looks different but still cute

after sex, with her glowing or whatever- whether she looks good still


may be i need to confirm to my ego that yes this girl is still cute and i am making the right decision.. pretty messed up lol


when you add personality, the thing changes, its always +/- 2/3 points so a 7 can go to 9 or a 8 to 6... but last few girls i hooked up with i always kinda look at them at certain moments to check out how hot they make me feel... anyone else do this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That seems strange to me...... but with that said, when I am getting to know a new girl I will continue looking her over for qualities I desire as a justification to myself before I hit it. So in essence, that sounds like what you do too.
 
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Yeah I've done this before. The next morning after my drunk wore off..

Kidding, kinda. Haha.

But I know what you mean. Some girls look really good one day, but can be embarrassed to even be seen with another.

We men are raging full of testosterone. I think the ultimate test is to take a look at her after you've nutted and see how attractive she is then. If you still find her attractive, then she is probably is.

Some girls, after I nut I start to think, wow, did I just really do this? Not that they are hideously ugly. But when you are hard and ready to mingle, your d!ck does all your thinking for you. So you may not have a problem boning a HB7 at that moment. But your friends still might make fun of you if they find out about it. Make sense?
 
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Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Amazing said:
Yep spot on, the ultimate test is if you WANT her to be there AFTER you just came.

that's how you know if you have something
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Dude who agreed with me - were you raised by a single mom?


Cause me and you are a little feminine brah
 
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