"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who do you approach?

gm8384

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Hey everyone, I was wondering who you all approach to when you are out and about (shopping, school etc)...

1. Is it only girls that show possible interest (for example, EC)?

2. Or will you approach anyone anywhere (a girl sitting alone at a table that has not noticed you yet).

If you chose 2, please elaborate on how you might approach a situation like that. I know you could just ask if anyone is sitting there and then start talking, but that seems a little too forward for someone that you completely cold approached. On the other hand, sitting near by and then leaning over to ask a question/make a comment seems like a better idea to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MadaMadaDame

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Who do you approach?
Approach someone that interest you. Well.. you can approach someone of no interest just to widen your experience.
 

diablo

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Ever onward

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Hey everyone, I was wondering who you all approach to when you are out and about (shopping, school etc)...

1. Is it only girls that show possible interest (for example, EC)?

2. Or will you approach anyone anywhere (a girl sitting alone at a table that has not noticed you yet).

If you chose 2, please elaborate on how you might approach a situation like that. I know you could just ask if anyone is sitting there and then start talking, but that seems a little too forward for someone that you completely cold approached. On the other hand, sitting near by and then leaning over to ask a question/make a comment seems like a better idea to me.
While Eye contact is a BIG plus, I pretty much approach any girl who I am intereted in. Today for example I approached a girl who was sitting alone outside. Sure it was obvious that I wanted to talk to her but who cares what she thinks. She introduced herself to me after minor chit chat.

Women respect guys who have balls.

But anyways, before I approach, I notice the environmental situation and try to think of something to talk about even if it's a tiny lame excuse for a conversation.
 

DJ_Dork

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I only approach girls that have strong eye contact with me.

Anything less and I disregard her until she initiates conversation or touching with me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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