"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who do you approach?

gm8384

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Hey everyone, I was wondering who you all approach to when you are out and about (shopping, school etc)...

1. Is it only girls that show possible interest (for example, EC)?

2. Or will you approach anyone anywhere (a girl sitting alone at a table that has not noticed you yet).

If you chose 2, please elaborate on how you might approach a situation like that. I know you could just ask if anyone is sitting there and then start talking, but that seems a little too forward for someone that you completely cold approached. On the other hand, sitting near by and then leaning over to ask a question/make a comment seems like a better idea to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MadaMadaDame

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Who do you approach?
Approach someone that interest you. Well.. you can approach someone of no interest just to widen your experience.
 

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Ever onward

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Hey everyone, I was wondering who you all approach to when you are out and about (shopping, school etc)...

1. Is it only girls that show possible interest (for example, EC)?

2. Or will you approach anyone anywhere (a girl sitting alone at a table that has not noticed you yet).

If you chose 2, please elaborate on how you might approach a situation like that. I know you could just ask if anyone is sitting there and then start talking, but that seems a little too forward for someone that you completely cold approached. On the other hand, sitting near by and then leaning over to ask a question/make a comment seems like a better idea to me.
While Eye contact is a BIG plus, I pretty much approach any girl who I am intereted in. Today for example I approached a girl who was sitting alone outside. Sure it was obvious that I wanted to talk to her but who cares what she thinks. She introduced herself to me after minor chit chat.

Women respect guys who have balls.

But anyways, before I approach, I notice the environmental situation and try to think of something to talk about even if it's a tiny lame excuse for a conversation.
 

DJ_Dork

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I only approach girls that have strong eye contact with me.

Anything less and I disregard her until she initiates conversation or touching with me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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